In India, a topic as personal as virginity is often blown out of proportion. Believe it or not, there are still a lot of people in India who won't accept a woman just because she is not a virgin.
Since sex is still a taboo in India, topics like virginity are still frowned upon but they become suddenly important when needed. We live in a society where parents are not bothered about whom their son is sleeping with but when it's time for him to get married, his wife has to be a virgin. Since this topic is less spoken of, there are a lot of myths and misconceptions about it. Most of which exist because people don't know the concept correctly.
First of all, virginity has nothing to do with the physical appearance or size or shape or structure of your genitals. People believe that you can't test a guys virginity and at the same time, they believe that they can tell if a girl isn't a virgin if she doesn't bleed the first time she has sex. This is absolutely wrong. The hymen is a fragile piece of skin in the vagina which can be torn by physical activities such as riding a bicycle or playing tennis.
When a girl rips her hymen, it is not compulsory that she will bleed. And just because she doesn't have her hymen intact, doesn't mean that she has had sex before.
Virginity is more of a mental thing. The moment you have sex, you are no longer a virgin. No one can tell if you are a virgin or not by looking at your privates and it is something only you will know. And when it comes to the question if you can grow your virginity back, we spoke to Dr Iram Sheikh who is a practicing gynecologist.
She says, ”You lose your virginity when you have sex for the first time. Just because you don't have a hymen it doesn't mean that you have lost your virginity.”
”Women ask me if they can grow their virginity back and mostly it is because they can't get married. A lot of women also undergo expensive plastic surgery to have their hymen reconstructed. This is completely absurd and completely unnecessary. This industry is fueled by the judgments of people who have a regressive mentality.”
So you can get your hymen reconstructed but there is no way you can grow your virginity back! If someone is judging you because you are not a virgin, let go of them. It's good riddance because you don't deserve that kind of negativity in your life!